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CyberMind  Un orator bogat si-a inceput cuvantul la un seminar prin aceia ca a tinut in mana o bancnota de 50 de Euro. In sala erau prezenti vreo 200 de persoane. El a intrebat : " cine doreste bancnota asta?" Toate mainileau in aer. Atunci zise" Voi da aceasta bancnota unui dintre dv., dar mai intai permiteti-mi sa fac un lucru " El a mototlit atunci bancnota in palma si aintrebat : : " Inca tot mai doriti bancnota?" Mainile erau tot pe sus.. Atunci el continua: Si daca fac urmatorul lucru??" Arunca bancnota mototolita pe panant si o freca cu pantoful pana a ingropat-o. apoi a ridicat-o murdara si total sifonata ,,Acum cine o mai doreste?" Mainile erau toate ridicate in aer Apoi zise" Dragi prieteni, tocmai am invatat o lectie foarte valoroasa si plina de talc:Indiferent ce sa intamplat cu banii voi tot i-ati dorit deoarece prin ce sa intamplat cu ei , nu si-au pierdut valoarea , bancnota inca tot 50 EURO valoreaza. Adesea se intampla in viata noastra sa fim respinsi si trantiti la pamant, mototoliti si murdariti cu noroi. Astea sunt realitati din viata cotidiana. Atunci poate ne simtim lipsiti de valoare. Dar indifferent ce sa intamplat sau se va intampla, TU nu iti vei perde din valoare indiferent ca esti murdar de noroi sau curat si calcat , TU , ramai nepretuit pentru aceia care te iubesc. Valoarea vietii noastre nu se exprima prin ceace facem sau ce stim sau cunoastem, ci prin CINE ESTI TU..Tu esti ceva foarte deosebit - nu uita Niciodata !" Oricat as tine lucruri nefolositoare, se vor dovedi utile abia dupa ce le arunc Current mood:  amused.
Avem timp pentru toate. Sa dormim, sa alergam in dreapta si-n stanga, sa regretam c-am gresit si sa gresim din nou, sa-i judecam pe altii si sa ne absolvim pe noi insine, avem timp sa citim si sa scriem, sa corectam ce-am scris, sa regretam ce-am scris, avem timp sa facem proiecte si sa nu le respectam, avem timp sa ne facem iluzii si sa rascolim prin cenusa lor mai tarziu. Avem timp pentru ambitii si boli, sa invinovatim destinul si amanuntele, avem timp sa privim norii, reclamele sau un accident oarecare, avem timp sa ne-alungam intrebarile, sa amanam raspunsurile, avem timp sa sfaramam un vis si sa-l reinventam. Avem timp sa ne facem prieteni, sa-i pierdem, avem timp sa primim lectii si sa le uitam dupa-aceea, avem timp sa primim daruri si sa nu le-ntelegem. Avem timp pentru toate. Nu e timp doar pentru putina tandrete. Cand sa facem si asta, murim. Am invatat unele lucruri in viata pe care vi le impartasesc si voua!! Am invatat ca nu poti face pe cineva sa te iubeasca. Tot ce poti face este sa fii o persoana iubita. Restul... depinde de ceilalti. Am invatat ca oricat mi-ar pasa mie, Altora s-ar putea sa nu le pese. Am invatat ca dureaza ani sa castigi incredere si ca doar in cateva secunde poti sa o pierzi. Am invatat ca nu conteaza CE ai in viata Ci PE CINE ai. Am invatat ca te descurci si ti-e de folos farmecul cca 15 minute. Dupa aceea, insa, ar fi bine sa stii ceva. Am invatat ca nu trebuie sa te compari cu ceea ce pot altii mai bine sa faca Ci cu ceea ce poti tu sa faci. Am invatat ca nu conteaza ce li se intampla oamenilor Ci conteaza ceea ce pot eu sa fac pentru a rezolva . Am invatat ca oricum ai taia Orice lucru are doua fete. Am invatat ca trebuie sa te desparti de cei dragi cu cuvinte calde. S-ar putea sa fie ultima oara cand ii vezi. Am invatat ca poti continua inca mult timp, dupa ce ai spus ca nu mai poti. Am invatat ca eroi sunt cei care fac ce trebuie, cand trebuie, Indiferent de consecinte. Am invatat ca sunt oameni care te iubesc, dar nu stiu s-o arate. Am invatat ca atunci cand sunt suparat am DREPTUL sa fiu suparat, dar nu am dreptul sa fiu si rau. Am invatat ca prietenia adevarata continua sa existe chiar si la distanta. Iar asta este valabil si pentru iubirea adevarata. Am invatat ca, daca cineva nu te iubeste cum ai vrea tu, nu inseamna ca nu te iubeste din tot sufletul. Am invatat ca indiferent cat de bun iti este un prieten, oricum te va rani din cand in cand. Iar tu trebuie sa-l ierti pentru asta. Am invatat ca nu este intotdeauna de ajuns sa fi iertat de altii. Cateodata trebuie sa inveti sa te ierti pe tine insuti. Am invatat ca indiferent cat de mult suferi, Lumea nu se va opri in loc pentru durerea ta. Am invatat ca trecutul si circumstantele ti-ar putea influenta personalitatea. Dar ca TU esti responsabil pentru ceea ce devii. nu conteaza cat de imprevizibil este celalalt, poti sa fii de acord cu el oricum Current mood:  peaceful.
Când trecea, Isus a văzut pe un orb din naştere. Ucenicii Lui L-au întrebat: „Învăţătorule, cine a păcătuit: omul acesta sau părinţii lui, de s-a născut orb?” Isus a răspuns: „N-a păcătuit nici omul acesta, nici părinţii lui; ci s-a născut aşa, ca să se arate în el lucrările lui Dumnezeu.” Un adevarat credincios este o ciudatenie. El are o dragoste suprema pentru Cineva pe care niciodata nu l-a vazut; ii vorbeste cu familiaritate, zi de zi, Unuia pe care nu-l poate vedea; el se asteapta sa mearga in ceruri pe baza meritelor Altcuiva; se goleste singur de sine pentru a fi umplut de Altcineva; recunoaste ca a gresit pentru a putea fi socotit drept; se coboara pentru a fi ridicat; este cel mai puternic atunci cand este cel mai slab; este cel mai bogat cand este cel mai sarac, cel mai fericit cand ii merge cel mai rau. El moare pentru a putea trai; el pierde pentru a putea castiga; daruieste la altii, pentru a pastra pentru el. El vede nevazutul; el aude neauzitul si cunoaste necunoscutul! - A. W. Tozer Ma indoiesc ca stelele sunt de foc. Ma indoiesc ca soarele se misca. Ma indoiesc ca adevarul poate fi minciuna. Dar niciodata nu ma indoiesc ca iubesc. - William Shakespeare I've learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them; I've learned that no matter how much I care, some people just don't care back; I've learned that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it. I've learned that it's not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts; I've learned that you can get by on charm, for about fifteen minutes. After that, you'd better know something; I've learned that you shouldn't compare yourself to the best others can do. I've learned that you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life. I've learned that it's taking me a long time to become the person that I want to be. I've learned that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may b the last time you see them. I've learned that you can keep going long after you can't. I've learned that we are responsible for all we do, no matter how we feel. I've learned that either you control your attitude or it controls you. I've learned that no matter how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades and there had better be something else to take it's place. I've learned that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences. I've learned that money is a lousy way of keeping score. I've learned that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time. I've learned that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're downhill are the ones to help you get back up. I've learned that sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel. I've learned that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. Same goes for true love. I've learned that just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to doesn't mean that they don't love you with all they have. I've learned that maturity had more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated. I've learned that your family won't always be there for you. It may seem funny, but people you aren't related to can take care of you and love you and teach you to trust people again. Families aren't biological. I've learned that no matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that. I've learned that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you have to forgive yourself. I've learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken, the world doesn't stop for your grief. I've learned that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become. I've learned that just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other. And just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do. I've learned that we don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change. I've learned that you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever. I've learned that two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different. I've learned that no matter how you try to protect your children, they will eventually get hurt and you will get hurt in the process. I've learned that your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don't even know you. I've learned that even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help. I've learned that credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being. I've learned that the people you care about the most in life are taken from you too soon. I've learned that it's hard to determine where to draw the line between being nice and not hurting people's feelings and standing up for what you believe. In the name of truth, the human race has committed its worst crimes. Men and women were burned. The culture of whole civilizations destroyed. Those who sought a different path were marginalized. One of them was crucified, in the name of truth. But - before dying - he left behind a great definition of Truth. It is not that which gives us certainties. It is not that which gives us profundity. It is not that which makes us do better than others. It is not that which keeps us in the prison of prejudices. Truth is that which gives us freedom. "Know the truth, and the truth shall make you free," said Jesus. Aoccdrnig to a rscheearch at an Elingsh uinervtisy, it deosn't mttaer in waht oredr the ltteers in a wrod are, the olny iprmoetnt tihng is taht the frist and lsat ltteer is at the rghit pclae. The rset can be a toatl mses and you can sitll raed it wouthit porbelm. Tihs is bcuseae we do not raed ervey lteter by it slef but the wrod as a wlohe. Current mood:  thoughtful.
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